I haven't done much sewing all week. I started with a scratchy sore throat Tuesday, which wasn't bad, but I expected it to turn into a full-blown cold. It hasn't. Still a little sore, still not myself. And to make things worse, yesterday while snuggling my kitties on the couch I managed to hurt my lower back. I have no idea how, but now I'm hobbling around like a very old woman, moaning every time I have to bend!
But after reading what Windsom Winds had to say about her experience with older quilters assuming younger quilters know nothing, I thought I'd tell one of my favorite stories of "revenge" on that type of quilter.
The first ever quilt retreat I attended, I was about 24 or 25. Probably 1999 or 2000. Before I was married, but I was living in the same town as my future hubby by then. (So I was probably working on that yellow Rose of Sharon quilt you all saw a few posts back.) My mom and I went together and roomed together, but there were two classes offered: a chenielle jacket or a mystery quilt. Since I don't really care to wear my quilted creations (unless my back hurts and I'm snuggled up on the sofa), I opted for the mystery quilt. My mom likes to wear her creations, so she made the jacket.
The registration confirmation contained directions for the mystery quilt fabric buying. Something like light, dark and contrast. I'd been helping my mom ("in training") for years before I actually got up the nerve to sit down at a machine and sew, so I knew what they meant. I love purple and found some great stuff at JoAnn's. I packed up my stuff, took an afternoon off work and headed out into a beautiful fall day.
In the mystery quilt sewing room, we shared tables. I knew noone. My mom knows everyone, so many people knew WHO I was, but I had no idea who they were. Because I didn't have a friend in the room, I ended up at a table with an older quilter who was there alone, too. As I looked around, I had to giggle a little because she was clearly the oldest quilter there and I was clearly the younest. We shared a giggle over that, but got to work.
I think most of the remaining quilters looked at our table as "special" - assuming we were too young to know what we were doing and too old to be able to handle these new-fangled techniques (rotary cutting, chain piecing, etc.). I just smiled to myself. "We'll see," I thought.
We worked diligently, helping each other far less often than other table partners, and were usually the first two in line for the next "clue" to the mystery. We ripped very little (though I'll admit we both did) and were significantly ahead of the pack by the end of the first day.
By the end of the retreat, I was able to "solve the mystery" with a completed top. My table partner had hers almost finished - I think blocks into rows, just not together yet.
So here's the mystery solved:
The block is called Blackford's Beauty and it is a little tricky. Lots of pieces/cutting. But I like what I ended up with. I clearly did a good job of picking light, dark and contrast, don't you think?
One gal I remember ripping a LOT chose three shades of red florals. Her goal was something like a watercolor quilt. Others didn't do as well picking either light and dark or dark and contrasts and were ripping a lot, too. I don't mean to judge. I do my share of sewing things incorrectly and ripping, but it's a little diffifult to be 100% nice when the weekend started out with these ladies making unfair assumptions.
I think many of these ladies went home with a new appreciation of the abilities of quilters NOT based on age.
When I arrived home, tired and excited, I showed my hubby and he said "You should frame that." This was before he'd invented the "Biddyhood" and fat halves (or so he thought). His family is not a creative one (other than word-wise) and he had no idea what this was for. Today I wish I'd taken him up on that - for no reason other than to torture him with his ignorance!
It's still just a top. I didn't buy enough of the gold to do more because there was no more. And it's purple - what do I do with that? My couch is red! And it's throw-sized. So for now, it goes back in the box of tops and one day I'll figure out what to do with it.
I also had an interesting conversation with the hubby last night. He has a fishing boat and wants a newer, nicer one. There is nothing wrong with the one he has, it's just not as fancy as the one his buddy has... We are about to pay off a decent-sized bill and years ago I'd ignorantly said when that one was paid off, he could use that "extra" money to get a new boat. Well...
Last night, we discussed his having a boat, a nice, newer truck and a nice, newer car while I have a $169 sewing machine and 11 year old car (I love both, thank you), so maybe I should get the next toy. I think he thought this was going nowhere and I had no toy in mind. Now you quilters probably have this figured out, but guess what my toy is? A long arm machine!!! He said so long as I can get it for what he would have paid for his boat (my budget is $10,000, which I think MIGHT get him a boat that floats, but not all the bells and whistles he wants) I can get one first. I have a LOT of researching to do, but I don't want anything terribly fancy. Stitch regulator and large enough to do a king-size quilt is all I really need. But maybe my research will turn up more... Anyone have any suggestions? I'm VERY open right now!